Over the course of the past two years that I've been living in Madrid, I've had several people ask me, a) do I miss the US?, and b) what do I miss about it?
Do I miss the US? Kind of a weird question. I mean, it's where I lived for nearly my whole life and where my entire family and most of my friends are. I'll call Madrid "home," but it's not really
home. On the other hand I'm in no rush right now to get back to the US. To be honest, I've adjusted fairly well (intentional or not) to Madrid and certain aspects of the lifestyle here. But there are things I will
never get used to, for example: lack of personal space, those damn people who are so unbelievably anxious to get off the metro at their stop, even though I have
no idea what they're in a rush to get to (hello, you're
Spanish), and grocery stores being closed on Sundays or banks only being open until 2 pm every day of the week. But even these things I've (begrudgingly) come to accept.
There are, however, some things about the US I'll always miss; things that either don't exist in Spain or that just aren't the same here. But I think the more time I live here, the more the list of American things decreases. For example, I used to bring back certain toiletries, peanut butter, Kraft macaroni and cheese, etc. when I would take trips home. There are still some toiletries that I buy at home and bring back (mainly because things like contact lens solution, for example, are
so damn expensive here), but the list has more been reduced to the things I really need, rather than the things I just like.
Anyway, there are still some things that I'll always miss. Some things I can live without, some (more abstract) things that will keep me always coming home (you know, until it's for good). Here are just a few (in no particular order):
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Iced coffee. It's not that this doesn't exist here, per se, but rather that in my experience, it's not quite the same and it's not as easy to find. Sure, you can go to Starbucks but it's expensive. It's really rather strange that it's not more common here, seeing as it gets ungodly hot in the summer. I suppose it's in part due to the different style of coffee here: small and strong, versus the American large and watered-down. Regardless of the reason, I find myself trying to steer clear of Starbucks during the hot weather months simply to avoid the temptation.
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Oh, refried beans, I think I miss you most of all. |
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Good (and cheap) Mexican/Tex-Mex food. For anyone thinking, "but Spain is full of tacos and enchiladas and fajitas!": please, dear god, go review your high school history textbook. You're on the wrong continent. Yes, yes, Spain once conquered the land that is now Mexico, but the cultures between the present day countries is quite different. Including food. You'll find practically
nothing spicy in Spain (perhaps one reason why Mexican food is hard to come by). There are Mexican restaurants in Madrid, but in my experience, they're far from spectacular and also quite far from cheap (or reasonably priced, even).
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Ok, maybe he's an exception... |
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That hard-working American attitude. Okay, we have tons of lazy Americans. But by Spanish standards, we work too hard. Sorry, Spain, you just don't work hard enough. Maybe I shouldn't be bringing what could be a sensitive cultural topic into play here, but I really can't help it. I do know plenty of hard-working Spaniards, but the general attitude I observe is, "enjoy life first, work a little later in order to afford enjoying life." I mean, for goodness sake, what country in the world still has a
siesta midday?? Again, I'm not going to delve deep into a political-cultural debate, but have you guys
seen the state of your economy?! I'm not suggesting you become a workaholic. But there's nothing wrong with enjoying your job and working hard at your job. It is, after all, a major part of your life, whether you like it or not.
4.
Summer barbecues with family (or friends). Family get-togethers are big in Spain. Barbeques, not so much. Maybe it's a weird thing to miss, but let's face it, it's one of the best ways to get families together. (It's so much less crazy than Christmas!) Sadly, I've gotten kind of used to no Thanksgiving over here, but this past 4th of July was the first time I wasn't in the US, and it was a bit of a bummer. On the rare occasions that a grilled meat smell wafts into my apartment, I get really nostalgic for home.
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Open 24 hours! |
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Drugstores like CVS. There are, of course, pharmacies in Spain. But the type of store where you get medicines, shampoo, birthday cards, random food items, and certain household items like CVS in the US just doesn't exist here. I honestly don't know what's so great about CVS - maybe it's the convenience of being able to get lots of different things all within the same store, or the fact that it's usually open pretty late, or maybe even the fact that you can print out photos and go back in an hour to pick them up. Whatever it is, I miss it.
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I don't even know what countries half of these flags are from. |
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The international foods section in the grocery store. I know this is a weird one, but cooking and foreign cuisines are two things I really love, and thus a lot of experimenting occurs. (And, on rare occasions, I cook something normal.) Anyway, in order to cook food from other cuisines, or at least make hilarious attempts, you obviously need certain ingredients that aren't necessarily common. Spanish grocery stores
do have a foreign foods section, but it's a lame attempt generally consisting of one or two shelves stocked with soy sauce, Asian-style noodles, jars of salsa (mild, of course; I've
never, to my chagrin, seen medium, and looking for hot salsa would be like expecting rain in the desert)...and little else. A few weeks ago I had to go to several different grocery stores in order to hunt down a simple bottle of teriyaki sauce. Before that I had to settle for a fajita seasoning packet instead of a taco seasoning one (which let to a somewhat catastrophic culinary result). Oy. I guess I'm stuck on the ham-cheese-bread diet for the remainder of my time in Spain.
So there you have it. Not a long list at all. Maybe there are other things out there that I would add to it, but I started this post a few days ago and haven't really thought of many things to add to it. But really, the fewer the better - I won't be seeing any of this stuff until I go home for Christmas.